Last Friday night, as we gathered here for
services, one by one, folks entered the sanctuary, with shock and horror on
their faces. News of the terrorist attacks in Paris, that ultimately took over
100 lives, was trickling in. So frightening. Such heartbreak - to see the
destruction, the evil, the lack of respect for innocent life. Beautiful lives, mostly young, cut
short. A beautiful city, one that many of us have spent time in, shaken by
bombs and bullets.
And then, to compound the fear and the heartbreak,
I have felt deep sadness as governors and congress members have hastily moved to
shut Muslim refugees out of our country, from fear that these refugees could be
terrorists in disguise. I was at a meeting in Middletown on Tuesday night where
the state rep for Middletown shared that he had received 30 phone calls that
day from constituents demanding that we not accept refugees.
At that meeting, I also learned about the
shooting at the mosque in Meriden, just up the road. Thankfully no one was in the
mosque on Friday night, when it is believed the shooting occurred. Several
bullet holes were discovered in the walls of the building, and the FBI is
currently investigating the shooting as a possible hate crime.
All of
this brings back memories of the days just after the Sept 11th attacks, when
Jim and I were living in NYC. It was hard enough to sit with the terror, the
fear, the grief, the stench. But to then immediately be assaulted, over the
airwaves, by anti-Muslim and xenophobic rhetoric, only compounded the trauma.
But I also had moments of pride this week.
Governor Malloy, announced his commitment to
continue taking refugees from Syria and Iraq, into CT. At that same meeting in
Middletown, a representative from IRIS, a refugee resettlement agency based in
New haven, announced that a Syrian
refugee family who had been en route from a refugee camp in the Middle East to
Indiana, was rerouted to Connecticut. She had been there to welcome them to New
Haven that afternoon. And last week our synagogue board endorsed our
congregations participation in a larger faith community effort to settle 3
refugee families in Middletown this year.
It was good to see that the ADL, a Jewish
organization, publicly condemned the shooting at the Meriden mosque. And I was
proud to watch Mark Hetfield, the CEO of HIAS, the oldest refugee agency in the
US, testify on Capitol Hill this week, making a very clear and persuasive
argument that our American values call upon us to continue to welcome refugees
into the US and to not put up further barriers .
I’ll just share a bit of what I learned from
watching his testimony:
These refugees from Syria and Iraq wait an
average of 2 years to receive clearance to enter our country, and all refugees undergo
the most rigorous vetting and screening process of any group seeking entrance
to the US. By seeking to block their entry we are blaming the victims of the
same perpetrators of the same violence that we witnessed in Paris. They are
fleeing bombs and torture, children are dying, and people are risking their
lives to get to safety. He clarified that US refugee policy is wholly different
from Europe. There, the vetting process begins once the person has already
arrived in Europe. Our process begins when the person has fled their country
and are waiting in a refugee camp in a second country. We screen out 50% of all
eligible refugees that might pose a risk and only take in the most
vulnerable - mostly women and children
and older men. They undergo rigorous background checks with a number of
agencies, and have an interview with a Homeland Security officer face to face.
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At the HHDs this year when we prayed the
Ashamnu confession for the first time, using our new HHD prayerbook, there was
a word that was notably missing: the sin of xenophobia. I understand that in
the new edition, the authors wanted to get away from the traditional
alphabetized acrostic of our sins.
But for me, xenophobia is not just a funny
word for a sin that just happens to start with the letter “x”. When we say this
word out loud as part of our communal confession, it evokes the horror of the
Holocaust, the phenomenon of people looking away from the suffering of our
people, and the closing of borders to Jewish refugees. I’m sure many of us saw
the tweet this week that showed the statistic from 1939 of 67% of Americans
being opposed to letting European political refugees into this country.
Two of my grandparents squeezed in that very
year, from Germany, just making the quota. We still have the steamer trunk my
grandmother carried, stamped with the name of the ship she took to get here -
the S. S. St. Louis. Thank God she didn’t have to go through a 2-year vetting
process. She made it onto what we think was the last voyage of that ship before
the ill-fated voyage that docked in Cuba and had to turn back to Europe, after
getting close enough that the passengers could see the lights of Miami. Hundreds of these
passengers ultimately perished in the Holocaust.
Unfortunately today, we are seeing that the
sin of xenophobia still needs to be in our prayerbook. The fear of the stranger
prevents us from looking at a person and seeing that they are a vulnerable
human being, just like me, just because they look different, they have a
different religion, they speak a different language. Xenophobia is what allows
us to attach a stereotype to a person - to see a Muslim, even a Muslim child!
- and automatically see a terrorist.
Last Shabbat, we presented our congregant,
Martha Stone, a noted advocate for children’s rights in this state, with our first
Pursuers of Justice and Peace award. One of the most inspiring things she
talked about was the poster she described that hangs in her office, that she
looks at every day. It asks, “What do you stand for?”
If you were to search the Torah for the most
common theme, you would find that the mitzvah of welcoming the stranger appears
more than any other commandment. Thirty six times, we are told to love the
stranger, to welcome the stranger, to treat the stranger as a citizen. This is
what we stand for as Jews, more than any other value in our Torah.
By not taking in refugees fleeing ISIS, we
confirm ISIS’s distorted thinking- we play directly into what THEY stand for -
that the West is the enemy of Islam and Muslims.
What are WE going to stand for, during this,
the largest refugee crisis in the world since WWII?
I believe that the commandment to love and
welcome the stranger is repeated so many times in the Torah in order to
immunize us against the fear that is so natural to us and which distracts us
from what we stand for.
The Paris terror attacks last week
understandably stir up great fear. It feels close to home - many of us have been
to Paris, speak French. We identify.
I am probably one of very few if any people
in this room tonight who speaks Arabic and has lived in an Arab country. Those
places and cultures feel foreign to us. It is important to remember though,
when we are taken over by fear, that these types of terror attacks have been
carried out by ISIS for years, killing hundreds of people, in other large
modern cities like Damascus, Cairo, and Baghdad. In fact, Beirut - the Paris of
the Middle East - was also attacked last Friday night. But Lebanon has not
stopped welcoming refugees, Jordan hasn’t stopped welcoming refugees, just
because those attacks felt “close to home” for them.
I don’t believe that we should decide that
now, since Paris was attacked and since this makes us more afraid, that we
should block people from seeking refuge in our country. When we feel this
intense fear, we need to take a breath and return to our intention - our values
- what we stand for. We need to remember to distinguish in our minds between
Muslims and terrorists - between refugees fleeing violence, and those who are
perpetrating it.
This week in our Torah portion, Jacob is
fleeing his brother Esau, who is after him to kill him. On the way, Jacob has a
famous dream - angels are going up and down a staircase to heaven. In the dream
God promises to be with Jacob, wherever he goes. At the end of the Torah
portion, Jacob is finally on his way back home, after living in exile for 20
years. As he makes his way home, angels again greet him to accompany him.
As Americans, as Jews, we can be there for
people fleeing into exile. We can be an accompanying presence, a welcoming
presence. The best way, I believe, to neutralize extremist ideology, is through
love - to show Muslims around the world what it means to be American: To be those angels – to care for our fellow
human beings - to provide a place of refuge.